Be Alone and Find the Power of Solitude

Have your ever been so alone? And have you ever cherished the feelings of loneliness. Then surely you have not been lively inside. I won’t say that I’m not a social kind of a person but yes I love and find a lonely room to lock myself up. For what reason? Maybe to explore the really me! Who is Shafaq actually? This is also a fact that the choice of being alone and feeling of loneliness is undesirable. But it is sometimes necessary to find your own self.

The thoughts in your mind bubble and they just pass by as the awaiting one needs a mindfulness. The bundles are entangled around your poor brain and you feel a load on it. You try to sort them out but still they are not eased.

Investing more energy with yourself:

It builds your capacity to perceive the powers at play in your life. When you consider being distant from everyone else, what do you feel? Is it accurate to say that you are holding your breath? It is safe to say that you are grasping your stomach, at this moment, or your jaw? It's OK to have these emotions; you don't need to like them.

“Solitude is the beginning of all freedom.” -William Orville Douglas

If I talk about myself, I cannot hide the feelings inside me. It just comes to my face and it is normal but still not accepted by people around you. The only escape I found is to just close my mouth and stop arguing with people. I ultimately give up explaining myself to all. It is not the thoughts that are rebellious, these are the circumstances that make you feel so bad for people.

It is not easy to accept what people decide for you, but you have to accept it. If not for your own self then for those who can get happiness from your sacrifice.

Believe me you deserve some Solitude

Life is too complex to not hold some uninterrupted alone time sometimes. For those of you who guarantee you don't possess energy for it. You are the ones who require it most. Trust me, I was there with you. Make isolation a need and your psyche and body will much obliged.

There will dependably be times in life when you are separated from everyone else. Regardless of whether it's your choice or not. Become accustomed to these occasions and figure out how to grasp them. They allow us to encounter life in a way we never generally would.

  

Just sit comfortably on couch and lay back holding a warm cup of coffee. You will find yourself ravishing. Then take a journey to your thoughts. I won’t say that they will pleasing thoughts no they obviously won’t. You may feel tears trickling down your cheeks and you may also feel shivering and trembling. 

The warmth of your face is they mark that yes you are burning inside.  It’s all okay and feeling so lethargic and not getting a satisfaction means to be in need of help. It is leading to destruction. I prefer to deal it alone, but yes this is not always helping. Remember the good thoughts as they may satisfy you.

No one can find the eternal satisfaction but yes you get some answers that may intrigued you. That Is only possible if you spend alone time exploring yourself.

What have I learned of myself being alone?

I know that I can do magic being alone. You know what I go to my own happy land of mine own. No one can take me from there. I find peace in it. I feel like it gives me goosebumps and I live there for a time being in my own tropical wonderland!

You will do things that you never did. They may be good or bad. At least you will do what you want to. Appreciate your own company and get lost in your own world.

You will do things that you never did. They may be good or bad. At least you will do what you want to. Appreciate your own company and get lost in your own world.

So being alone is not bad as if it gives you comfort. I love myself when I’m ALONE…because I am my own self at that time. A person with mysteries! Let me also tell you that at time you may also feel scared.

But I am a loner as it get to discover my life, my actions, my happiness, my sadness and BIGGER than all my OWN SELF!

 My soul find peace in silence